I remember the first time someone told me that what happened to me wasn’t okay.

I cried hot tears of acknowledgment. A small sliver of cool dissociation melted in my soul. I began to … Read More

Hey peeps,

As the coaching industry has moved more towards somatic approaches to healing (sexuality work, breathwork, body positivity, etc.) I get more and more messages from coaches with an energy of uncertainty, nerves … Read More

Hey beautiful humans,

From where I sit, we’re in a biiiiig birth canal as a human family.

There’s no turning back –

We can’t avoid the rising sea levels, the burning forests, the open … Read More

This one’s for the coaches tryina make more cash (without exploiting yourself or others)

Hi beautiful people,

First of all, the lovely Melanie Rose Prince took this photo of me in my truest summer … Read More

Beloved,

I want to be crystal clear about my email policy so you can know… if you’re getting a short response from me, it’s not because I don’t love the shit outta you.

It’s … Read More

5 suggestions for facilitating trauma-informed miracles.

Hey lovely human,

Ever attend a workshop or retreat and walk away wondering… How did they pull that off? I entered into a portal and am leaving a … Read More

How to make your own Pleasure-First Summer Seduction Game 😍

Okayyyyy… here we go!

Wanna fill the next two week with doable delights that magically make you feel more turned on?

Want something small … Read More

The sexual health that grows from genuine safety.

It was 2014. I was living in Portland, Oregon.

I was experiencing chronic vulva pain. I was choosing addicts for lovers. I was teetering between wild … Read More

10 small/big dares from my heart to yours this summer

1. Do at least one tech free Shabbat that lasts 24 hours. Invite friends over for dinner on Friday night (even one will do!), … Read More